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03 luglio CAN'T WAIT...My peter pan called me up and unlike his usual goodnight calls, he goes...i can't wait for us to get married...
that just brought a big smile across my face at the other end of the line...i can't wait too, hon... goodnight... 04 giugno BRIDAL FAIRA good day for a our first bridal fair event... chocolate fondues will surely be a part of the wedding reception...  11 maggio ISLANDGAL FALLS FOR PETER PAN...Due to a personal request, my boyfwend suddenly shows interest about how i categorize my entries and kept on insisting for me to cook up a category of his own...though he still doesn't have any idea where i write my blog, he makes a suggestion of using Peter Pan as his "screen name" so to speak...being his cute and jolly self again, i indulge to his request and hereby refer my wuvie
 as Peter Pan in the subsequent entries...(what the heck! he's slowly emerging from his stressful state that i am sort of giving him this new identity to celebrate his return to sanity!) REJOICE!!!!! WELCOME BACK MY PETER PAN... I MISSED YOU...
 29 aprile WOMAN AGAINST THE MACHINEthough I live on an island, i'm not about to escape the wrath of the attention grabbing machine of all time...
ROUND I
island girl calls her man and he answers with a...huh?....uhm....yeah....yep...k....bye... for all the questions i got to ask, all i got was a one syllable response...
 again he is deeply immersed in thought and concentration...
i better not start disturbing him....
let him finish it off...
ROUND II
island girl makes another call... yup....aaaaaaaaaaaaah (she hears some weird commands of attack and explosions at the background)....
i said goodbye....
he's still on it... i'll try again later...
 ROUND III
island girl makes last call for the night attempting to have any meaningful conversation for the day...
what the _ _ _ _! your still on it?
 (ha! not saying it outloud! still wondering what makes him sit it out that long in front of his damn computer game playing command and conquer!)oh well then... goodnight and i hope you get enough sleep...
......yeah...yeah... what's the use! don't want to complain... let the machine win every round! atleast i know he's just at home....hehe...
 26 aprile HOW THE HUNT ENDS...To those of you who happen to be blissfully married with their first boyfriends... i'm happy you found them at the first try...
For girls like me who have been somewhat blessed to have met their first love when the timing was right...we sure are lucky...
i can't start this blog without having to write a little bit about the person i am about to marry...
my mom married at the age of 30 and my dad was her first boyfriend. they had been together for 8 years before they finally took the big plunge. theirs was like all other marriage. they too had their share of marital spats but somehow they still managed to stay together up to now...
i knew at a young age that i was never gonna marry my first boyfriend if ever i started having one. i thought it was ridiculous to marry the first guy you ever went out with (forgive me for having negative vibes about first boyfriends...i was young and had quite weird ideas then). for me it was scary to think that i might not have the chance to meet the right guy if i carry on with the first relationship that i had...and so that's how the first boyfriend ended...
getting to the good part...i finally met my Island boy when i was 21. he was really very goodlooking... (yup! you caught me.... getting drawn over the physical stuff...
 ) but he really was! and this entry wouldn't be as truthful enough if i didn't mention it! but along with the great face was a very sweet man. he knew how to make me laugh. he had this confidence that was totally lacking at guys my age around that time. i didn't feel awkward trying to get seats at restaurants coz he took over the task before i even try asking for one (i don't know why i get too shy trying out new places).he loves adventures and i promised him i'd be willing to try every new adventure he wants atleast once (i'm not really the outdoorsey type) and i'm glad he's happy with the deal. i'm a pessimist and he has endless optimism. hmmm...come to think of it i'm marrying a guy who's my total opposite! (haha! finally realizing it when i'm about to marry him already!) but how we complement each other gave us just the right combination of a really challenging and meaningful relationship. it is an unusual relationship. something i never thought would get this far. sometimes there was so much conflict that i found myself living one day at a time.
amidst all the drama, there are so many things i've learned about him, myself, and the kind of life we wanted to build in the future. ours was always a relationship in progress and i'm happy how we managed to pull our immature selves together and try working around the problems.
so how do we end up choosing who we want to be with in the future? my theory is, tolerance shouldn't be a part of the kind of life we are looking forward to. maybe when we find ourselves willingly adapting to our special someone then we might have bigger chances for success rates... but i'm no authority... so don't take my word for it...
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